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{AiR Piet} | 1958 - 2020

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HelloClan community,

The full picture is here, with great sadness.

@Santa managed to find an online obituary for a person that resembled our {AiR} Piet. With this information, I had first attempted to get in touch with Piet's wife, although I suspect she is not very active on Facebook, so I then reached out to Piet's son with success.

There was still doubt and I truly hoped that I was wrong, but his father (Pieter) is the same person we have come to know as {AiR} Piet. Pieter had indeed sadly passed away on the 6th of March 2020.

For those unaware, he was diagnosed with Prostrate Cancer. All the time leading up to when he last played with us, he had been fighting it valiantly even though the circumstances kept worsening.

He joined us a few times back in the day on TeamSpeak, I still remember talking to him and trying to speak Afrikaans to him. He was always pleasant to have around and it's extremely disheartening that I never got the chance to even video call with him.

I have asked his son for permission to share a photo of Pieter on our memorial page, along with a bit more info about him as well as our conversation. I will update this topic when I have received the responses.

In remembrance of {AiR} Piet - a formidable pilot and an outstanding human being!




Ps. For anyone interested, the initial message that I sent, followed by the message I sent once it was confirmed they were the same person can be seen below in text format. I have omitted the names / surnames and link for privacy reasons.

Greetings OMITTED, I hope that you are well? We've not met before, my name is Shaun and I run a gaming community called -[HELLO]- clan.



We play a computer game called Battlefield Vietnam. The reason I am getting in touch is because I think that Pieter, your dad, was a player on our server with the name of {AIR} Piet. He first joined us around the 24th February 2010, and his last recorded match was 23rd February 2020.



We know that {AIR} Piet had been fighting cancer for quite some time. I occasionally tried to keep contact through the game however I was not always around during the later years, though at the time of what appears to be his untimely passing, I was away and didn't know. I came back to the community earlier this year, on a hunt to find out what happened to him. Many members of our community were touched by his kindness. His character greatly added to our atmosphere. I had sent three/four emails to him but I never got a response. We were all worried and were unsure of what had happened. I tried to find a way to see if our greatest fear was true, and I had a friend help me find this: LINK OMITTED.



If {AIR} Piet and Pieter are the same person, I want to you know that his imprint on our community will always be remembered. He played on the odd hours, and he would often help strange new players to learn the game, he'd teach them how to fly the jets in-game, he'd spend a great amount of time laughing and gaming with us. We only have fond memories of him. He was a great man and I am sorry I didn't get to know him more, out of the game.



I can understand that receiving a message like this out of the blue may seem odd, but it is a terrible thing not seeing him in-game and, in the case of my info being correct, I am truly sorry for your loss. I'd be greatly appreciative if you could respond. If I have made a terrible mix up, I truly apologize. I am only trying to find closure.



My thanks and greetings in advance.

Shaun

Ps. If ever he spoke of us, my in-game name was IceSkater & I am from South Africa. I did send a similar message to OMITTED, but I'm not sure if she yet got it.

Thank you for the response!

I'm terribly sorry for his loss. We are a close community and it's quite noticeable when someone doesn't check in.

I'm just truly sorry it took me so long to get in touch. I still realize this conversation is a bit of a shock. But it felt right that I get in touch and let you know what he meant to us as a community.

I'm honored that message got though and that it means something to you. I only knew Piet from the game, and as I already said, he was a great person from that perspective. I know it's late to say this but you and your family do not mourn alone. We have also lost a very respectable member of our community and on behalf of HelloClan, we all send you our condolences. We mourn with you.
 
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very nice ice skater we together found him
kwe can make a post next to flowerpower
Thank you for finding him online!

I'm just waiting for a response from his son for a photo, then I will post it nicely on the memorial. Maybe I can do the same for Flower & Cosmo.



Regards,
Ice
 
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I bring an update on our fallen brother.

With the consent of Pieter's son, I am able to introduce you to the person we all knew as {AiR} Piet.

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(Left, Piet's wife, right, Pieter).

Sharing some insight into who Pieter was, I have consent from his son Ruud to share a bit of our chat.

Like some of our other members here, Pieter was an avid biker! He rode in style too it seems. He kept on riding till 8 months before he passed away. Ruud has said that Pieter chose his day himself and kept his honor till his last breath. He was great family orientated person.

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Top left to right:
Pieter's daughter's husband. Hanneke, Pieter's wife. Pieter, the man himself. Ruud, Pieter's son and standing in front of him is his sisters daughter.
Bottom left to right:
Pieter's daughter. Little guy in the pram is her son. Pieter's best mate and his wife.

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This photo is of Pieter's early days in the The Royal Netherlands Marechaussee which was his primary job.


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Pieter had also taken part in the Walk for Light. A campaign that raises awareness for cancer.


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Note Piet's tattoo?

He and his son share the tattoo. Tell me that's not some father son bonding.


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A pic from the Gentleman's Ride. In it is Pieter and his best mate.

As we all know, Pieter was a good person but as it turns out we knew so little about him. One of his final acts was taking part in what is known as the Distinguished Gentleman's Ride. https://www.gentlemansride.com/

It is a form of awareness raising campaign for men's health. Pieter took part in it, raising awareness for cancer in men.

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Translated:
Dear sponsors, today was the day. Despite the bad weather it was good/nice to join in. We raised €1030, which has become a very nice amount. Thank you for that. A total of €385820.00 has been raised in the Netherlands.


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Translated:
Love is also letting go.

He, who loved life so much and was so committed, has passed away. My dear Pieter, our dear dad and proud grandfather.

In my own words now, in great memory, we miss you so much already Pieter. It was an honor being allowed to know a bit more about you and what you did in life.


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Thank you to Ruud for providing the photos and details about his father. He graced us by giving us this information and allowing us all to see who had been the person we only knew by name (and some knew by voice).
 
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An additional note, Ruud asked me to add this photo of his twin tattoo to his fathers.

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I also think it well to share this photo:

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A proud grandfather there. :)
 

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Cuesta creerlo ...
Cuando veo su nombre simpre me acuerdo que le decia Pietttttttttttttttt... ..
el es (presente) una buena persona .
Buenas noches PIETTTTTT
 

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This post is amazing thx to his son Ruud en all family we always will remember him as a good person.

Heel veel sterkte voor de hele familie het was leuk om pieter een klein beetje meegemaakt te hebben

groetjes uit Rotterdam
 
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This post is amazing thx to his son Ruud en all family we always will remember him as a good person.

Heel veel sterkte voor de hele familie het was leuk om pieter een klein beetje meegemaakt te hebben

groetjes uit Rotterdam
Dankie Santa, ek het vir Ruud die pos skakel gestuur. Sjoe hy sal jou pos sien.

Ek moet alweer dankie vir jou se, ons sal hom nie gekry nie as jy het hom nie gevind het nie.


Groete en al wat mooi is. ;)

Ice / Shaun
 

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I called him "Pie" - he was a good player. Always fair and by the rules. Spoke to him over the years. A good man. Rest in Peace Pie
 
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