What happened to free will? Both Kowalski and Spirit are two people who are very well capable of making their own decisions. When Spirit says that she 'manipulated' Kowalski into doing these things, in my opinion she's insulting him - how can it not be an insult when someone says that you have no free will or are so easy to manipulate on so many different occasions?
And it is not only very unlikly that it went down like that, but it's also very impractical for this case, or for any future case. If we'd actually unban someone based on the argument 'he made me do it', we'd be setting a precedent for any group of offenders, who could use the very same argument.
Both of them have been warned, kicked, and tempbanned many times before. I think now, within a week of the ban, we should not yet be discussing an unban. People that broke so many rules should be given a couple of months reconsider their attitude on the server. For their own sake and for the sake of the community.